Comments on: On broken trust and stronger love

By: Jayme

Jayme — Tue, 13 May 2008 10:20:07 +0000

Thanks for the comments and greetings everyone. This actually happened months ago but I only had the courage to write it now.

Josiet: Marriage is indeed a colorful thing.
Ate Kengks: Salamat po. I did get to know myself more after what happened. Now I believe that a human’s capacity for love and understanding can be limitless.
K: Thank you too!
Ris: I know you can be positive too. It takes some work but it’s worth a try.
Rach: Everything is a-ok. If you’re guided by love, you’ll know how to cross the bridge.
Sarah: Right… and snakes too.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:57:24 +0000

Everytime we decide to love someone, we always take the risk of getting hurt and losing ourselves. There is never a guarantee that the partner we chose is or will remain faithful and invincible to temptation. My belief is everybody deserves a second chance in love, but they need to prove that they are worthy of that chance. Honestly, I don’t know what I would have done if I were in the same situation. Rach was right — just cross the bridge when you get there… and look out for crocodiles

By: rach

rach — Mon, 12 May 2008 18:05:34 +0000

This topic is never forgotten… some would really say na ‘wala na! iwanan na!’ but then the truth of the matter is you will be willing to work it out not because of the children but because you love your husband / wife and you are willing to give it another try.

You’re right about the fact that when you tell someone you’ve forgiven him / her for the act, it should be sincere. Here in Dubai, a lot of men (and women) treks the ‘other’ way and though their partners would tell them that they’re forgiven – they’re not. The fact still remains that he / she made a mistake and it will forever be brought up when the tough gets going or sometimes just for the heck of it – ika nga mapag-usapan.

Just like what the readers said, I admire you.

I don’t know what my reaction would be – I guess I will just cross the bridge when I get there.

I hope everything is alright on your end

rachs last blog post..Stop the Questions

By: iris

iris — Sun, 11 May 2008 08:47:38 +0000

happy mom’s day jayme! i’m happy there are people like you who always take things in a better perspective. in many ways i wish i could be as positive and courageous as you. i may not experience the same thing but there are a lot of ways a girl can be faced with such tough situations. i admire your fairness and commitment.

By: K

Sat, 10 May 2008 19:29:23 +0000

Happy Mother's Day, Jayme. Ks last blog post..M is for Mother

By: kengkay

kengkay — Sat, 10 May 2008 14:43:30 +0000

dear jayme — i admire you for what you did. sometimes we really do find courage in love. i admire you for talking to him, for being open about your feelings, i know it’s not easy to do that esp if one is hurting. but with what you did, you got not only your husband’s attention; but i am sure you got something more from within yourself. and for posting this in your blog, i know how confident you are of what you have and what you are. you are one heck of a woman, jayme. am proud to know you. happy mother’s day. hugs

By: Josiet

Josiet — Fri, 09 May 2008 17:26:34 +0000

Just want to add Happy Mother's Day. Hope you have a great time! Josiets last blog post..Not having another baby is not being selfish

By: Josiet

Josiet — Fri, 09 May 2008 17:19:34 +0000

There is no “black or white” in a marriage. There’s a lot of colors in between

When there is still love in a marriage, everything is workable. That’s what I think.

Josiets last blog post..Not having another baby is not being selfish