Comments on: How to deal with each other’s differences http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/ Stories of a devoted wife, loving mother, aspiring writer & passiotive thinker Wed, 07 Jan 2009 14:55:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.1 By: christine http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3243 christine Fri, 30 May 2008 05:17:26 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3243 these differences 'spice' up our marriage/partnership.. without them, life will definitely be boring... another well-written post! take care! :) christines last blog post..<a href="http://www.marikit.net/?p=522" rel="nofollow">Good (and Bad) Things Must Come to an End</a> <blockquote><em>Thanks Christine! :)</em></blockquote> these differences ’spice’ up our marriage/partnership.. without them, life will definitely be boring…

another well-written post! take care! :)

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Thanks Christine! :)

]]> By: joanjoyce http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3104 joanjoyce Sat, 24 May 2008 02:58:08 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3104 i just recently learned how to accept it and not to change him.. well i am quiet getting used to it now :P difference is really cool i am really enjoying it now.. i have this hobby that I can do w/o him and vise versa atleast at the end of the day we have something to talk about :) joanjoyces last blog post..<a href="http://joanjoyce.com/blog/?p=399" rel="nofollow">SOS Medical ID Bracelet</a> <blockquote><em>That's the way to go, sis. Make sure you keep your own hobbies and interests. Aside from adding variety to your conversations, it also ensures that you keep individuality intact as well. :)</em></blockquote> i just recently learned how to accept it and not to change him.. well i am quiet getting used to it now :P difference is really cool i am really enjoying it now.. i have this hobby that I can do w/o him and vise versa atleast at the end of the day we have something to talk about :)

joanjoyces last blog post..SOS Medical ID Bracelet

That’s the way to go, sis. Make sure you keep your own hobbies and interests. Aside from adding variety to your conversations, it also ensures that you keep individuality intact as well. :)

]]> By: kengkay http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3075 kengkay Thu, 22 May 2008 20:41:42 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3075 you both love each other, that's what matters most. and of course, you said it too, communication :D kengkays last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/HomeWorked/~3/296032287/ill-be-on-brit-radio-this-saturday.html" rel="nofollow">I'll Be on Brit Radio this Saturday, Again!</a> <blockquote><em>Yup, Communication with a big C! :D</em></blockquote> you both love each other, that’s what matters most. and of course, you said it too, communication :D

kengkays last blog post..I’ll Be on Brit Radio this Saturday, Again!

Yup, Communication with a big C! :D

]]> By: K http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3068 K Thu, 22 May 2008 08:02:35 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3068 I guess it's the very real-and often very funny-differences between the sexes. And those differences makes your relationship more interesting. But -- Do you ever nag him when he leaves the toilet seats up? Ks last blog post..<a href="http://www.knoizki.net/2008/05/20/put-your-records-on/" rel="nofollow">Put Your Records On</a> <blockquote><em>Lucky for me, this has never been a problem. But if ever he does have habits I'm not very happy about, I never nag. I just tell him straight out. Besides, I rarely get pissed enough to warrant an outburst. Weird. I'm just wired that way I guess. :D</em></blockquote> I guess it’s the very real-and often very funny-differences between the sexes. And those differences makes your relationship more interesting.

But –

Do you ever nag him when he leaves the toilet seats up?

Ks last blog post..Put Your Records On

Lucky for me, this has never been a problem. But if ever he does have habits I’m not very happy about, I never nag. I just tell him straight out. Besides, I rarely get pissed enough to warrant an outburst. Weird. I’m just wired that way I guess. :D

]]> By: Papa Ces http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3058 Papa Ces Thu, 22 May 2008 00:57:27 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3058 Okay. The first two who commented here are girls so I guess they didn't notice this part... "Sometimes, he’d take long baths with / like me in the shower..." :D I like my rice cold. I even put a plate of newly-cooked rice in the ref so it would get cold real quick. Papa Cess last blog post..<a href="http://sagadaphilippines.com/?p=17" rel="nofollow">Best birthday gift ever! The North Face Heckler</a> <blockquote><em>Both of those are true... :lol: Anyway, what's with men and cold rice? </em></blockquote> Okay. The first two who commented here are girls so I guess they didn’t notice this part…

“Sometimes, he’d take long baths with / like me in the shower…”

:D

I like my rice cold. I even put a plate of newly-cooked rice in the ref so it would get cold real quick.

Papa Cess last blog post..Best birthday gift ever! The North Face Heckler

Both of those are true… :lol: Anyway, what’s with men and cold rice?

]]> By: rach http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3054 rach Wed, 21 May 2008 18:43:24 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3054 I think it's better that you don't have the same interests all the time because you would just get bored!!! Being with Robert for close to 9 years, we still have our differences... the first few years were really a major adjustment... he is a neat freak and I'm not so I find it hard that I don't see the bits and pieces that I leave behind in a corner... it was frustrating because I have to ask him all the time! now, we have learned to adjust and give each other the 'breathing space' we deserve. I may not like his 'gym' stuff in the room but I allow it because he now allows me to leave a book in one corner, my notebook on top of the dresser :P rachs last blog post..<a href="http://jugglinglives.wordpress.com/2008/05/21/service-with-a-smile/" rel="nofollow">Service with a Smile =)</a> <blockquote><em>Pareho tayo, sometimes my stuff would "disappear" and I would find out that Kernan kept them in the cabinet pala. Now, I just make it a point to keep most of the room in order so he won't mind if I have a book or two lying around. :)</em></blockquote> I think it’s better that you don’t have the same interests all the time because you would just get bored!!!

Being with Robert for close to 9 years, we still have our differences… the first few years were really a major adjustment… he is a neat freak and I’m not so I find it hard that I don’t see the bits and pieces that I leave behind in a corner… it was frustrating because I have to ask him all the time! now, we have learned to adjust and give each other the ‘breathing space’ we deserve. I may not like his ‘gym’ stuff in the room but I allow it because he now allows me to leave a book in one corner, my notebook on top of the dresser :P

rachs last blog post..Service with a Smile =)

Pareho tayo, sometimes my stuff would “disappear” and I would find out that Kernan kept them in the cabinet pala. Now, I just make it a point to keep most of the room in order so he won’t mind if I have a book or two lying around. :)

]]> By: Josiet http://jayme.passiotive.com/how-to-deal-with-each-others-differences/#comment-3053 Josiet Wed, 21 May 2008 14:43:31 +0000 http://jayme.passiotive.com/?p=133#comment-3053 Hehehe..my hubby likes to eat while watching TV too and like you, I like to eat on the table while having a good conversation. Sometimes it irritates me but I guess I've come to accept it together with the rest of our differences. Anyway, if I ask him to turn off the TV and chat with me, he'll oblige most of the time. Unless it's his fave show :) By the way, I took the liberty of linking you up already. Hope that's ok. Josiets last blog post..<a href="http://jmcastaneda.blogspot.com/2008/05/back-from-langkawi.html" rel="nofollow">Back from Langkawi</a> <blockquote><em>Thanks Josiet, that's so sweet of you. I've placed you in my blogroll too. :D Sometimes my hubby agrees when I request that we eat on the dining table. But most of the time, I just let him have his way. It's his simple pleasure after all and it doesn't really hurt for me to give him that. But when our kids grow up, I really would want all of us to eat together so our dining habits would have to change eventually. :)</em></blockquote> Hehehe..my hubby likes to eat while watching TV too and like you, I like to eat on the table while having a good conversation. Sometimes it irritates me but I guess I’ve come to accept it together with the rest of our differences. Anyway, if I ask him to turn off the TV and chat with me, he’ll oblige most of the time. Unless it’s his fave show :)

By the way, I took the liberty of linking you up already. Hope that’s ok.

Josiets last blog post..Back from Langkawi

Thanks Josiet, that’s so sweet of you. I’ve placed you in my blogroll too. :D Sometimes my hubby agrees when I request that we eat on the dining table. But most of the time, I just let him have his way. It’s his simple pleasure after all and it doesn’t really hurt for me to give him that. But when our kids grow up, I really would want all of us to eat together so our dining habits would have to change eventually. :)

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