Relationships

On broken trust and stronger love

05.09.2008
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It started with a series of text messages sent in the wee hours of the morning.

I would hear his cellphone’s beep and somehow I felt that there was something not quite right about it.

I would say a woman’s gut feeling is one of her most precious gifts. It is what helped me discover what was wrong.

For a time, I kept quiet about what I felt.

She could be just a friend. I tried to justify to myself.

Don’t be such a little jealous girl. I warned myself.

But why did I have such a nagging feeling about the whole thing?

Finally, I decided to ask. There was no point in killing myself over my own thoughts. Didn’t we say we will be open to each other about our problems?

All I needed to do was ask so I would find out the truth.

But I did not. He lied.

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Missing you…

04.27.2008
Jayme and Kernan

Kernan left for China last Friday for a special project and he won’t be back until Tuesday. I’ve been missing him a whole lot and wish I could pull the days faster. Since roaming charges can pack a ton, we just communicate through text which makes me miss him even more. The last time we [...]

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Simple ways to keep the sparks in your marriage

03.09.2008
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One night, I got a text message from hubby, “If I decided to work abroad to support our family, would you quickly get rid of me?” I knew he was visiting a friend who was scheduled to fly to UAE the next day. Kernan said the wife seemed okay with her husband leaving and showed [...]

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Quit the unrequited love

03.07.2008
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“I’m still not over him.” My friend M and I were talking over lunch and I was asking her about the state of her heart. She confessed that she still can’t stop thinking about him and wondering when they could see each other again. Him is a guy she met at work last year. From [...]

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