Marriage

On broken trust and stronger love

05.09.2008
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It started with a series of text messages sent in the wee hours of the morning.

I would hear his cellphone’s beep and somehow I felt that there was something not quite right about it.

I would say a woman’s gut feeling is one of her most precious gifts. It is what helped me discover what was wrong.

For a time, I kept quiet about what I felt.

She could be just a friend. I tried to justify to myself.

Don’t be such a little jealous girl. I warned myself.

But why did I have such a nagging feeling about the whole thing?

Finally, I decided to ask. There was no point in killing myself over my own thoughts. Didn’t we say we will be open to each other about our problems?

All I needed to do was ask so I would find out the truth.

But I did not. He lied.

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Missing you…

04.27.2008
Jayme and Kernan

Kernan left for China last Friday for a special project and he won’t be back until Tuesday. I’ve been missing him a whole lot and wish I could pull the days faster. Since roaming charges can pack a ton, we just communicate through text which makes me miss him even more. The last time we [...]

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When you know

12.04.2007
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When you know that you know who you love, you can’t deny it. Or go back, or give up, or pretend that you don’t buy it. When it’s clear this time you’ve found the one, you’ll never let him go Cos you know and you know that you know. When you feel in your skin [...]

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12 things I learned from 1 year of marriage

10.12.2007
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One year ago, Kernan and I were wed in simple and wonderful civil rites in Binan, Laguna. The other day, we celebrated 5 years and 4 months of our relationship and 1 year as husband and wife. He often asks if we could just pick one date to celebrate: either our official date in June [...]

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